Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Life Is Precious

I have been reading a blog called the Nie Nie Dialogues. I am sure that many of you have heard of this blog and may know what I am referring to, but if you don't, I strongly encourage you to check it out. I am not even going to try to paraphrase because I am sure that I would do the whole thing a severe injustice. However, I do want to share this. . . . life is precious. I know that I don't say it, show it, or realize it enough. I truly am so thankful for every moment that I get to spend with my wild and crazy children and my knight in shining armor.
I love Luke's obsession with coloring and drawing. I love how he uses big words even when he doesn't know what they mean. I love that he comes up to me often with a big hug and an "I love you mom" (He really does that!). I love how "devastated" he seems when he reports to me that he was "a little wild" in preschool. I love his big brown eyes and his eyelashes that go on for days. I love that he knows that when he is scared or when he has lost something, he can turn to his Heavenly Father in prayer and his problem will be solved. I love his faith and his knowledge. I love how much he loves cars and his desire to know every little thing about every little aspect of them. I love that he worships his daddy. He is a good boy and I am so thankful for everyday that I get to have the opportunity to be his mother. I love you big guy!
I love Tanner's cute little chipmunk voice and his lisp that accompanies it. I love that he calls Launey "Da" because he is too lazy to say dad. I love that when we try to teach him how to pedal on his bike he is far to content simply ringing the bell to even give pedalling a go. I love his adorable smile. He truly has the sweetest smile in the world! I love his intensity (some people would call it his temper, but I think intensity describes it better). I love his towers made from soup cans. I love that he is constantly telling us that Wow Wow Wubbzy is his favorite. I love that he feels that it is necessary to remind us multiple times throughout the day that "I Tanner, I 2 and a half!" I love his wild hair and that he has to jump or run everywhere he goes. I love that he wants to be just like his big brother, and I love his big bear hugs. I love you little guy!
I love Brielle's wrinkled nose. She makes the funniest faces! I love that she laughs out loud when I smile at her. I love how she is so content to entertain herself with a flip flop and a little car. I love how it feels to hold her. I love love love rocking her to sleep when she wakes up at night (even though I really don't like getting out of bed to do it). I love it when she snuggles. I love to see how happy she is when she gets in the "tubbies." I love all of the pink and the flowers and the absolute sweetness that seems to surround her. I love how she waves. I love how her smile melts Launey's heart. I love her slobbery kisses. I love you my tiniest princess.
I love my husband! He is my prince. He is my sanity and my rock. He is my source of optimism. He is the father of my children. He keeps my life exciting. He is my eternal companion. I love how he respects me. I love that he treats me like his princess. I am not complete without him. I love you Mr. Ivers!
I am so thankful for Stephanie, and her sister Courntey's blogs. Because of them when Tanner refused to take his nap today, I hugged him and I held him. I didn't scold him and scare him into bed by threatening to take away his little blankie if he didn't sleep. I just loved him. It is also because of their blogs that I realized at about 10 o'clock last night that I hadn't given Luke a real true "you are so loved" type of hug all day. I had given him a quick kiss when I sent him off to preschool, but I am pretty sure that is all. So, because their blogs really got me thinking about what was important in life, at 10 o'clock at night, long after my kids had been tucked in tight, I hugged him tight, and I told him how much I adored and loved him. Life is precious. I am thankful for everyday I have to live it!

8 comments:

Natalie Park said...

I too have been reading her blog for a long, long time and it honestly makes you look at life so differently. I feel like her outlook on being a mother is totally different than what most people think being a mother is. It has changed my life forever reading her blog. And now that I work in the ICU, everyday I walk up the stairs to work I think about her and Christian and pray for their families. What a strong bond they have! Just a note to say I am with you on reading her blog....I am done now! :)

LTC said...

Awesome post...chills, tears, and all that good feeling stuff...off to hug my baby!

Anonymous said...

I'm addicted to their blog's, thanks for sharing.

Lyns said...

Amen Sistah! It is SOOO easy to get caught up in life and not enjoy the little things or relish in the fact that we GET TO be mothers! It's a privilege and we need to remember that every day!

McKel said...

Well thanks for making me cry! It's so easy to get caught up in life, and forget to enjoy everyday! Thanks for making me stop and think out how lucky I am!

paulak said...

That was a beautiful post and well put. Its great to sit down and reflect our blessings and especially to realize what is important in life.

kars and linz said...

i love her blog... i spend hours reading it! your such a cute mom kaydee! that was an awesome post and like the many others... i too did cry! love you!

Anonymous said...

I loved this post. I have never read the blog you were talking about but I am so grateful that I am surrounded by people who want the same things I do. Even though the world tells us that staying home is less important than working I am glad that you reminded me that I too need to take extra care in my day to day adventures. You are such a cute mom!